13独立生活设施附近埃克塞特，新罕布什尔州

当我第一次向父亲提出辅助生活的想法时，他的态度比我想象的要开放。灰石农场带我们参观了，他们花了很多时间解释。最后，他说:“是的，我可以想象自己住在这里。”这完全出乎我的意料。从他搬进来的那天起，直到今天，他几乎每天都告诉我他有多喜欢那里，或者这个或那个人有多棒。我和他们在一起很开心，也不觉得把他留在这里有罪恶感。他现在好多了。他不是一个人，他被照顾得很好。他真的很喜欢助手，尤其是护士。他唯一的抱怨都是小事，主要是关于食物的。 He tells me they give him too much food. And then with Covid when food is delivered to his room, his CocaCola comes as a can of generic version, whereas in the dining room, it's true fountain CocaCola. But we can easily work around those things! Other than that, he is very happy there. It has been the prefect solution for him. People are in and out checking on him all day, but he doesn't feel like he's being watched. He has his own apartment, so when people come in, it's like a mini visit, and then they go. It has been wonderful for me being close by to Dod so I can do the same, drop in for a moment as often as I want or need to. I think it's very expensive, but he's getting all of these services that are so beneficial. And his happiness and wellbeing is the most important thing to me. He doesn't do a lot of the activities, but he really enjoys when they bring in different musicians - pianists violinists, etc. It has been a really great move for him and everyone in our family.

社区非常干净整洁。工作人员非常友好，食物很棒，味道很好。他们也有很多活动。根据我的经验，我会把这个社区推荐给其他人。

我们选择了Kittery Estates，因为他们马上就有空房，而且他们需要尽快搬家。我姐姐有一个2卧室，所以大小是充足的。我认为他们的食物需要改进，他们总是提供同样的食物，所以他们需要更多的变化。他们把食物送到公寓要额外收费，所以她一直自己做饭。